Use a fixed timeline
Use the same follow-up timing for every invoice so you do not have to remember it all. A simple plan is: send when job is done, remind on due date, then follow up 3 days and 7 days later if unpaid.
Keep reminder language factual
Keep reminders short and polite. Always include the invoice number, amount due, and how to pay.
Escalate only when needed
If there is still no reply after several reminders, send one final message with a clear deadline and what happens next. Save a copy of each message.
Track outcomes monthly
Check once a month how long clients take to pay and how many invoices are late. Then adjust your terms or reminder timing based on what you see.